- Category: Being unaffiliated
- Created: Thursday, 21 April 2011 18:26
- Published: Thursday, 21 April 2011 18:16
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I have not been blogging recently because there's been a lot of pressing life to tend to.
But I have just been reminded of why I started this blog in the first place, and even of my very first post.
Today I have received disturbing communications from a Baháí once-friend who ended our generations of friendship today in rarified double-speak, because I am not a Baháí, and because of what I say about that fact on this blog.
And even though that is a private thing, I thought I would just make public what that experience is like for an ex-Baháí, for the benefit of my still-Baháí friends, so you will not act so cruelly. Or so mistakenly. And because I know you are not talking openly about it where it counts. Because the tide of our shared upbringing encourages you to cast leave-takers aside. And it also encourages leave-takers to shut their mouths in silence. And in shame. That's the anatomy of ostracism. It unfolds in small acts, not just in the published announcements in The American Baha'i that so-and-so has been administratively sanctioned in some way.